The main reason men hesitate to approach a woman is because they’re afraid of rejection.  This is quite understandable. Getting rejected is no fun. It hurts.  When you walk up to a woman, you’re declaring interest. You’re giving her the opportunity to respond positively or not. If she shuts you down, it’s a blow to your self-esteem and sense of worth.

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Your best defense is a positive attitude about yourself and a realistic evaluation of the situation. High self esteem is your best ally. If you don’t feel good about yourself, don’t you think she’ll sense that? yet important thing about self-esteem is that a man who is very confident and self-assured won’t be bothered by one woman’s opinion or even a group of women’s opinion. His sense of worth doesn’t depend on others. It comes from knowing himself and his value.

Even though you might expect the opposite, not caring if you are rejected makes it less likely that you will be. The difficult part is having self confidence when you first start out. Once you’ve had some success, the self confidence comes more easily.

As in a lot of areas in life, it can make sense to “fake it ‘till you make it”. Imagine how a truly confident man would feel. Try to capture that feeling yourself. This is not deception. It’s you becoming who you want to be.

This tip can help tremendously:  practice approaching and talking to women that you actually aren’t all that interested in developing any relationship with.

Since you’re just practicing and aren’t that interested in her and don’t want anything from her, her response doesn’t really affect you. This means you can me more relaxed in the interaction and have an honest “So what?” attitude if she does happen to reject you.

In this situation, if she rejects you, so what? It was actually generous of you to gift her with your attention. Having this attitude takes the pressure off and makes it much easier for you to be spontaneous and playful while getting a chance to see how women respond to different things.

Your eventual aim is to keep that same attitude when you approach a woman you are interested in. You’re doing her a favor. You’re a man of worth and women should be vying for your attention.

It may not be easy at first, but developing this “so what, her loss” outlook is well worth the effort. It will serve you well when you start approaching women you are interested in.
In all of this you need to distinguish between strong self esteem and arrogance.  A confident man doesn’t need to brag and he doesn’t need praise from someone else. His confidence comes from an internal knowledge of himself.

Also, don’t use or mislead any these women that you aren’t really interested in. It’s very likely that a number of women will respond positively to you. If you don’t honestly reciprocate their interest, don’t lead them on. After a while, tell them you enjoyed meeting them and move on.

Being Rejected By Women and Who Are

Fed Up With Spending Every Night…Alone

BY: Matt Wilson

I’m writing this letter to help you have more success with women even though I’m nothing special myself!  In fact, you could say that I’m your typical American guy. In my 30’s.  A bit overweight.  And definitely going bald to boot!

In fact, I’ve been told by a few cruel people that I’m not the most attractive guy in the world!  But I really don’t care about what they say.  That’s because even with this face, I’ve managed to have a very satisfying dating life for some time now.

It wasn’t always this way. I wasn’t always happy with my success with women.  Actually for many years, I was completely miserable.

Truth is… My life only changed when I came across a program called “Flirt Mastery”.

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Allow me to introduce myself…  My name is Matt and like you, I’ve been in the position where I wanted to meet and attract more girls.  I spent so many nights alone that my biggest fear was that I would end up as that creepy old drunk you see at bars hitting on young girls.  Yes, it was that bad!

Like a lot of guys, maybe like you, I turn to the Internet for information as I struggled to improve my dating life.  What I found frustrating was there weren’t many websites that gave quality information on how to improve my love life. You see, the Internet is filled with crappy ’seduction secrets’ that promise you’ll get laid by hot chicks if you’ll simply buy their product.

I wrote this open letter because I’m completely sick and tired of seeing these hucksters basically steal money and not do anything to help guys improve their dating lives.  As I write this, I hope you’ll read my story and learn from my mistakes…

The Story of Why My

Dating Life Sucked…Up Until Recently

Like a lot of tales, my story starts with heartache.  A few years back, I went through a nasty divorce from my ex-wife Beth.  After almost a decade of a “happy” marriage, she left me for another guy.  Words cannot describe how much this crushed me.  And once we officially divorced, I found myself, alone, having to pick up the pieces.

Imagine being forced back into dating scene after spending 9 years with the same woman.  it wasn’t any fun.I found myself older, fatter, balder, and less able to talk to girls than I once could during my late teens.  My “pick up” technique would involve going to bars with my buddies, getting drunk, and approaching women when I gained enough liquid courage. Needless to say, the girls didn’t respond very well to my garbled attempts at starting a conversation.

I spent almost a year in complete misery!  Beth was gone and no woman seemed interested in replacing her.  Some nights I would go home alone (like always), and cry my eyes out.  Finally I decided that I had to change the way I try to talk to women…

A Brief History of How I Tried to Turn Things Around

For another year, I struggled to find the right system for attracting women.  While I learned a few valuable lessons, I was still failing again and again when I tried to start conversations and talk to girls.  I literally bought (and actually used) DOZENS of different products that all guaranteed success with women.  Now I’m not going to bore you with gory details, but let me recap some of the worst moments during this time:

•    Spent almost $300 on online dating sites and went on only 3 dates.  (Each ended with the “let’s just be friends” speech).

•    Made my best friend’s sister cry when I used a “cocky-funny” routine on her!

•    Almost got my ass kicked when I tried to be an “alpha male” around the girlfriend of a large rugby player.

•    Was laughed at by group of women when I tried an opener that I learned from “Pick Up Artist” TV show.

Now don’t get me wrong… these were the lower points of this period.  While I was still getting rejected by women, I was also learning valuable lessons from these experiences!  it wasn’t always fun experience, but it was experience..A lot of the systems that I tried were okay. They DID have some good advice.  But none gave me a step-by-step plan for what to actually say once I started a conversation…

What Happened When Things Finally Started to ’Click’

After a couple of miserable years, I came across the newsletter of a guy named Steve Scott.  At first, I thought he was like the rest of the guys out there, trying to make a quick buck off of my woman problem.  But as I started to read his emails and recommendations, I realized he had a complete grasp of what women really find attractive in a guy.
Just from his free advice, I was getting more digits and setting up a dates with the women I met.  Even better… I managed to have a brief fling with a French au-pair who was working in this country for 8 months.

So when Steve announced his intention to release a complete guide to flirting and talking to women, I was the first in line to check it out.  I figured that since his free advice helped me so much, his premium content would make a huge difference in my dating life.  And in October of 2008, Steve released his Flirt Mastery course to small group of guys on his list (For more on Flirt Mastery, Click here…)

Presenting the NEW Matt – Attractive to Many Women, But Happy in a Relationship!

The moment I started to read Steve’s course, I knew I finally found a solution to my ’talking to women’ problem.  Unlike other systems, this product gave practical, straight-forward advice about how to flirt with women and create sexual attraction.  Following his step-by-step blueprint, I was able to quickly generate interest in the women I met.

And during the last few months, my love life has completely changed.  At first I did what any normal red-blooded guy would do – Date LOTS of women.  But in the beginning of January, I met an incredible girl named Lorin.   Even though we’ve only dated for relatively short time, I have that feeling you get when you’ve met that one special girl…

And I owe *most* of my success to Steve’s Flirt Mastery course…

What Makes Flirt Mastery Different From The Rest?!?!

I’m not going to make one of those lame promises that many so-called ‘seduction gurus’ make. If you invest in Steve’s course, you won’t be instantly able to bang 30 hot women in 30 nights.  His advice DOES work, but you have to actually get out there and apply it!

What’s great about Flirt Mastery is it provides a step-by-step system for flirting and creating sexual attraction during a conversation.  You see, most guides simply tell you to act confident around women, but they don’t get into specifics about what to actually say to women to make them attracted.  Steve gives practical advice that can be applied in ANY social setting.  (It goes beyond the systems that ONLY focus on helping guys in a bar or club setting).

Furthermore, Steve’s bonus reports offer special insight about how to apply basic flirting tactics through text messaging and the phone.  He gives real examples of how to keep the sexual chemistry alive after you’ve met a girl.  (I used a specific message with Lorin that I learned on Page 18 of his texting guide)

Last, but not least, I’ve personally used the Quick Start Guide of Flirt Mastery to quickly improve my success with women.  In this report, Steve provides a step-by-step blueprint for implementing his flirting and conversation techniques.  Since his guide is over 280 pages, this action plan provided the perfect starting point for improving my conversation skills with women.

Bottom line is I highly recommend ANYTHING that Steve Scott offers.  His Flirt Mastery guide has helped my improve my dating life and has helped me meet (and attract) the woman of my dreams!

Well I hope you’ve found this information to be useful.  I hope it saves you the time and wasted effort that comes from trying products that do nothing to help you succeed with women.  I honestly wish I read Steve’s book back when I first got started.

I wish the best of luck!

Your Friend,

Matt Wilson

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When he’s in a room, women gravitate towards him because they cannot resist his presence. If you want to be “that guy”, read on to discover some of the alpha male characteristics you can develop to attract woman in any situation.

An Alpha Male Is a Leader

Women are attracted to men who are leaders. Body language is one factor that demonstrates who is a leader. Someone with leadership style stands tall with his head high and shoulders back. He doesn’t slouch or seem nervous around woman. He seems to own the space around him.

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Some behaviors indicate low self-esteem and lack of confidence, but an alpha male has none of those. His words clearly indicate that no one questions his authority, and that no woman is immune to his charm.

An Alpha Male Is Confident

Confidence is probably the main thing that separates alpha males from beta males. Having confidence is effortless for an alpha male. It comes from within. Being confident does not mean being a bully or being a braggart, which is what beta males often do to try to appear confident.

An Alpha Male Has a Sense of Humor

Alpha type guys are comfortable teasing and joking with women. They do not get bothered about whether their jokes are corny or not. They’re just having fun.

Beta males may get nervous and fidgety when delivering jokes, which make the joke seem creepy. Beta males stress over what other people think about them so they can’t relax and just enjoy themselves.

This gives you some idea about how you can start building your game around women and increasing your confidence around women. Contrary to what some people think, you don’t have to be born lucky to develop the traits. Any guy can become an alpha male, and with the right guidance it’s easier than you may think.

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To begin, you can flirt with a woman from the other side of a room with little risk just by showing her you’re interested. Second, a woman will feel more comfortable talking to a guy who’s already showing signs of being interested. Third, if you get a positive response to your flirting you know you can proceed with less chance of rejection.
So how can you use flirting body language signals to communicate to women that you’re a single guy who’s out to interact and have fun? Here are three tips.

Maintain an Available Stance

While it’s true that women are more aware of body language, even guys can interpret some signals intuitively. For example, if a guy is sitting at a bar focusing on his drink, you don’t need to be a bosdy olanguage expert to sense that this guy wants to be left alone. Most of us would decide that someone siting like that isn’t interested in socializing. if you’re interested in meeting woman, that’s a posture to avoid.

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You have to face the crowd even if you’re alone.

An upright posture gives off the most positive message.  Make brief eye contact with women who happen to look your way. There’s a bit of timing with this. Lock eyes for a moment or two then look away.

Also maintain a friendly and open demeanor if a woman happens to walk past. Just smile and say hello but don’t try to strike up a conversation.
Using this type of open and friendly body language is a solid flirting foundation.

Use a Flirting Classic

Winking may sound a little old fashioned, but there’s a reason it’s a classic flirting move – it works. However you have to do it right or you can come off a little bit creepy. It’s simple to do it right, but a lot of guys mess up. Here’s the tip: make eye contact,smile before you wink, wink, then break eye contact. If you are with a group of friends you can simply return to their conversation.

This works well where it would be awkward to approach a woman more directly. This could happen if she’s engaged in a conversation already or sitting with a group. By winking, you’ve made her curious  and more likely to be interested in meeting you later. For that matter, some women will come over to chat with you almost immediately

Use Head Tilt

Let’s face it: most people’s favorite subject is themselves and they respond positively to someone who is interested in them. You can use body language to create this strong non-verbal message by tilting your head as a woman speaks to you. A head tilt is a posture of interest.

Of course, it’s also useful to note if she tilts her head as you talk.

All these body language cues help when you want to establish rapport with women.

There is another very important use of body language. As you may have heard, women are attracted to “Alpha” males. That is, men who radiate leadership and confidence. This is very powerful knowledge because this attraction is biologic in origin. It stems from our genetic history when a woman needed a strong male to protect her in a physically dangerous world. As much as culture and society has changed, the basic biology has not. Women are still attracted to Alpha males whether they admit it or not.

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]]> http://flirtmasterysecrets.com/flirting-body-language/feed/ 0 http://flirtmasterysecrets.com/flirting-and-body-language/ http://flirtmasterysecrets.com/flirting-and-body-language/#comments Sun, 11 Jul 2010 16:13:33 +0000 Admin1 http://flirtmasterysecrets.com/?p=58 If you want to attract woman easily you definitely need to know about . Most meaning in our communication is not in the words we say but in the tone of our voice and, most importantly our body language. In a way, this is a case of actions speaking louder than words.

There are some aspects of body language that really are beyond our conscious control. Researchers have identified brief (lasting less than a second) facial expressions that involuntarily reveal emotional reactions such as surprise, anger or disgust. As humans we become very adept at reading facial expressions, even these brief glimpses at an early age.

While these expressions may be out of our control, there are many aspects of body language that we can employ successfully in the dating world. Knowing these signals can give you a big advantage when flirting.

You may already know that someone with their arms crossed is indicating suspicion or resistance. They are creating a wall in front of them with their arms.

Now, it’s important to note that interpreting body language is not a precise science. That is the same posture doesn’t necessarily mean the same thing for everyone. In a way, we all have our unique body language with enough similarities between us that we can draw broad conclusions. However a single posture may mean something completely different for an individual.

For example, someone may stand with their arms crossed not because they’re disinterested but because it’s a habit they developed, or they find the posture comfortable when standing. You need to interpret their degree of interest looking at their response as a whole.

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Having said that, it is good to know some of the more important signals we give out with our body.

As a man, you want to give off an air of confidence and control. This means an upright posture with chest out and shoulders back. It does not mean military rigidity or strutting like a peacock.

And even though I just said that crossing arms doesn’t necessarily mean disinterest, it’s not the most inviting body posture. Avoid standing that way unless you do want to block somebody out.

Something people are less aware of is that crossed legs can have a similar implication as crossed arms. This is an area where there’s a definite difference between men and women because women wearing skirts will often sit with crossed legs out of social convention and politeness, not because they’re disinterested.

However a common crossed leg posture for men is a body language mistake. Many men crossed their legs by resting one ankle on the opposite knee. I know I do this a lot just as a good groin stretch. Don’t do it if you’re trying to engage a woman you’re sitting across from. That crossed leg creates a barrier, a virtual wall between you, that will be difficult to overcome with your conversation.

When you’re talking to a woman, be aware of her head tilt. If she tilts her head significantly to one side and that indicates that she’s very interested in you and what you’re saying.

If she fiddles with her hair or tosses her head back, that’s an even better sign.

Another aspect of body language that you can control is how you use your hands. If you think of the difference between a clenched fist and an open hand extended for a handshake I think it would be clear to you which is the most appropriate body language when you’re flirting.

When you use your hands to emphasize a point or gesturing, have you hands open and palms generally facing upwards. This conveys openness and trustworthiness.

Another signal to be aware of when you’re trying to meet woman is if she nods her head as she speaks. If she shakes her head in and no gesture as she saying yes, she means no. If she nods up and down in a “yes” signal, that’s a positive response regardless of what her words are saying.

Once you’re aware of these signals it will be easier to recognize them when you’re out in social situations. Don’t rush to try to use them yourself all at once or continuously. Instead, maintain a confident posture, notice what’s going on around you and see if you can recognize the nonverbal cues being given off, and gradually try to incorporate body language signals into your social interactions, especially if you’re flirting.

Of course there’s a lot more to flirting than body language. One very important aspect of success with women is to be seen as an alpha male. I won’t go into the psychology of why that is true here, but it’s deeply embedded in our genetic history. Women are attracted to alpha males in the same way that men are attracted to beautiful women. Obviously, if you’re a guy you want to be an Alpha male.

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